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Over 100 people (guys AND girls) on the ship took the plunge and shaved their heads in honor of Neptune Day. It’s a Semester at Sea traditional to shave your head when the ship crosses the equator. I’m sure there is a long and elaborate story behind how this day its name (something about King Neptune) and I wish I could relay that story to you, but I would be making up the details. The essence of Neptune Day is stepping out of your comfort zone and being completed free. For some girls, this was achieved by shaving all their hair off and going completely bald. In honor of Neptune Day, I decided to rock my ‘fro, something I haven’t done since gong natural. Although it wasn’t as bold as going bald, I found it to be really liberating. We capped off the day with a talent show in the evening. I decided to be bold and give a vocal performance, despite the fact that I haven’t sung on stage since high school. In honor of Neptune Day, I performed “I am Not my Hair” by India Arie and invited all the baldies in the audience on stage. It was a special moment and I’m glad I decided to work past the initial nervousness and do it. I really appreciated all of the support and compliments that I received from the shipboard community about my hair and performance. It was a great day.
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Soon after leaving India, my Global Studies professor Don Cogniat approached me about taking part in a student panel the next day during Global Studies class. He asked me to share a 5 minute story about an individual that I’ve met while in port that has touched or inspired me in some way. I’ve met some great people in the countries I’ve visited so naturally it was difficult to choose a single person, but I was able to narrow it down to two people, John “Lambo” Bowdre in China and Neha’s grandmother, Nani-ji Saroj. I chose these two individuals for completely different reasons. If you remember from my Shanghai entry, John was the Alpha that I met in China. After studying abroad at Shanghai University his final year in college, he decided to turn down full-time offer at UBS to relocate in China and set up his own entertainment/music venture. I was inspired by the tremendous amount of courage it took to make the risky decision to not only turn down a secure position for an uncertain future in a foreign country. I also admired the fact that he was able to harness the relationships he formed while studying abroad. It was the contacts that he made within the Shanghai nightlife and entertainment scene that enabled him to set up his own business. In such a short amount of time, he was able to set up and grow his business and bring his little brother over to China as well. At the same time, I was also touched by nani-ji Saroj’s charitable and selfless spirit. After much thought, I ultimately decided to share nani-ji’s story. After the discussion, Don asked the entire class to think of someone that has touched them and write a letter about how that person has inspired them. He called this our “Toothbrush Person” because he wanted us to think about this individual every morning when we brush our teeth and reflect on how they changed us. My letter was basically a synopsis of the story I shared with the class. Here is what I wrote about nani-ji:

While in Hyderabad, India, I met Nani-ji Saroj Maheshwari and was extremely moved by her accomplishments and contributions to the lives of others. She struck me as a women that truly lives her life for others. She married at the age of 15 and since then her life has centered around her family. Her husband and she live a comfortable but modest life and her children/grandchildren do very well for themselves. She could have decided to simply leave it at that and spend the rest of her days enjoying her life and the fruits of her labor, but she didn’t.

At age 60, she decided that she wanted to give back and help create opportunities for others to advance. So she set up orphanages and a small microfinance bank for need women and families. But she didn’t stop there. She also built a women’s college for impoverished women in and around Hyderabad. While I’m sure many people would love to do something like this, very few people actually take out the time, put up the money, and make the sacrifices needed to actually establish a school. We were able to visit the school and take part in a short general assembly that had been called in our honor. I along with 6 of the other students I was traveling with each gave a brief speech to the kids. We were greeted with a lunch reception that had been cooked by some of the students in the hostel. Neha and nani-ji even made a banner with our names on it. I was able to talk to some of the girls briefly and find out their names. One of the girls said, “bye sister” as I left, and that really took me by surprise and touched me. The girls were all so beautiful , spirited, and genuinely excited to have us. At the end we helped pass out sweets that were purchased on our behalf. It was a great day and certainly an experience I’ll remember for the rest of my life. The school has been in existence for over 9 years now and completely sustains itself off of private donations. It currently houses and teaches over 400 girls age 16-20 from extremely poor families. These women have gone on to pursue graduate degrees , start careers, and build their families; opportunities that they likely would not have had without this school. Nani-ji’s story and contributions have made me realize just how important it is to never stop giving and never lose sight of your dreams and passions.

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I had an amazing time in India. Im so thankful for Neha and her grandmother (nani-ji) Saroj. They were such a blessing. They hired an Indian tour company (Cox and Kings) and had a four city itinerary (Chennai Delhi Agra  Hyderabad planned for I and 6 other Semester at Sea students, which concluded with a home stay with nani-ji in Hyderabad. India is one of the ports that I was most looking forward to so I’m so happy that I got the opportunity to see as much of the country as possible within the 6 days that I was there. On the first day, we had lunch together in Chennai and bought some scarves and tunics at a local shop. We caught an evening flight to Delhi. We spent a total of 2 nights and 2 days in Delhi. On the first day, we pretty much went monument hopping and visited the Gandhi memorial, Raj Ghat, Jama Masjid, Qutab Minar, the President’s House, and India Gate. On the second day, after visiting the beautiful Bahá'í House of Worship (Lotus Temple) in Delhi, India and took part in a group mediation session. Later we walked around downtown Delhi and did some shopping. It was so sad to see so many young kids in the streets begging for money. I had a brief conversation with some of the Delhi street kids I ran into. One person that stands out in my mind was Anil, a kid that was selling beaded necklaces. He was so funny. At one point, he paused mid conversation and turned around to give another passerby his sales pitch… “No money, no honey” ….”No wife, no life”. So funny, I wanted to buy his necklaces so badly, but thought back to a previous conversation that I had with Neha and the interport student Sneha. They warned that, as depicted on Slumdog Millionaire, most street kids are really working under a drug lord/pimp so it’s always better to give them a pencil or food instead of money. With this in mind, I stopped in a small stationary store and purchased a bunch paperback coloring/ academic workbooks and markers and passed them out to any kid I ran into on the street. They were so excited, it felt sooo good. I still have some left over so our upcoming ports.

We set out early the next morning for the 5 hour drive to the Agra to see the Fatehpur Sikri and the Taj Mahal. For some reason, when I envisioned what it’d be like to visit the Taj Mahal, I imagined being the only person there. In my dreams, I had a private viewing; however, the reality of the situation was completely different. The Taj was PACKED with people, as one would imagine. So packed, that it was very difficult to get a good picture in front of it and the reflection pool, but fortunately I managed. It felt so amazing to see such an amazing structure in real time. From afar, overlooking the reflection pool, it almost seemed fake, like I was in a postcard. I still can’t believe that I’ve seen 2 wonders of the world within the span of a few weeks. We stayed in a hotel in Agra and headed back to Delhi that evening, where we caught a flight to Hyderabad to visit Neha and her nani-ji. From the very first minute until the very last moment in Hyderabad, we were thoroughly spoiled by Neha and nani-ji Saroj. We were greeted at the airport with a welcome sign and snacks. Nani-ji called henna artists to her home and we had our hands and feet hennaed later that night. The next day, we had dosas, visited the gold domed temple, got our eyebrows threaded, and went shopping at Fabindia and the Hyderabad mall. By far, the highlight of my stay was the visit to nani-ji’s girls’ college the next day. I’ll elaborate on this experience in the next blog entry entitled “Toothbrush person”. We left the next morning for Cochin, where the ship was docked. We spent our last day in India, walking around and shopping in a local market in Cochin. We saw the Chinese fisherman nets and visit Di Gama’s grave in a small church.

Overall, I had a great time in India. If I could do anything differently, I would have seen fewer monuments and spent more time just explored each city on foot and interacting with more people. I feel like most of the conversations I had were with our tour guides. The random encounters and conversations I had with store owners and street kids in Delhi were among the most memorable. The culinary experience in India was amazing to say the least. Anyone that knows me knows that I LOVE Indian food and I’m one buffet away from being a major shareholder at a New Delhi Indian Restaurant in Philly. Second, only to maybe the Taj Mahal, food was one of the things that I was most looking forward to experiencing in India…and India did not disappoint. Prior to this trip, I had no idea bout the nuances between north and south Indian cooking, now I do. Being very much carnivore, I was pleasantly surprised that I had such a great dining experience despite the fact that most of what I ate was vegetarian. Meal after meal, I loved everything I tasted—the spicier the better. I love how the flavors are so complex and complimentary in Indian cuisine. I definitely plan to learn how to make a few dishes when I move into my apartment.

As if having to leave India wasn’t bad enough, I arrived back on the ship only to discover that my computer had crashed. Thus, I’m without a laptop for the rest of the voyage. Definite buzz kill to my amazing time in India, but I’ll just get by with borrowing my friend’s laptops/frequent trips to the computer lab. Plus, now I have the perfect excuse to finally make the investment and life upgrade to a MAC 

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A lot has happened on the ship since we left Vietnam. A couple days after the ship set sail, the entire ship took part in Sea Olympics. Sea Olympics is a Semester at Sea tradition dating back to...a really long time ago. The residential cabins are divided into 7 sections, or “seas” and all of the seas compete in various events throughout the day. Aside from ‘bragging rights’, the winning sea gets to be the first sea to disembark from the ship when we reach Fort. Lauderdale in May. I live in the Caribbean Sea and our sea’s color was purple. Our theme for this voyage was “Pirates of the Caribbean” and our chant was to the tune of Sponge Bob Square Pants. I personally took part in 2 Sea Olympic events, the Singing SAS’ers, a lip-syncing/dance competition and Dean White Says, similar to Simon Says. My group danced to Eye of the Tiger. Even though we didn’t place, I was proud of the fact that we were able to choreograph a pretty solid routine with just a few hours of preparation. We placed 3rd in Dean White Says. Overall, our sea didn’t have much of a showing in the Olympics—we placed 2nd to last. Initially, Neha and I thought that plan to show the crew our appreciation was an original one. But we later learned that the ship has a crew appreciation day every voyage to thank the crew for all they do. So we’ll be helping to develop crew appreciation day through the students of service committee.

I also took part in a Global Studies student panel with other first-generation students/children of immigrants. The conversation centered around globalization and our parents generation v. our generation. I have clips from the discussion but the ship’s limited bandwidth doesn’t support uploads. I also met our inter-port students for India—Sneha and Vikram. Sneha is a 20 year old college student from Chennai and Vikram is a 24 year old medical student from Chennai. Essentially, inter-port students are students from each of the countries we visit that join us on the ship for part of the voyage. The onboard inter-port students change with each new port. The goal of the inter-port student program seems to be to foster a mutually beneficial academic exchange between Semester at Sea students and inter-port students. However, I feel as though this goal would be better reached if inter-port students actually sailed with us for the entire voyage and not just for a week leading up to the next port. The system as it currently stands makes for a somewhat uneven exchange. Aside from only getting to visit one port outside of their home country, inter-port students are essentially subjected to a week filled with giving presentations/talks about their country and answering questions about trip-planning from SASers. Despite my personal reservations about the equitability and one-sided nature of the program, it’s been cool to meet and talk to actual college students from the countries we visit. I really enjoyed getting to know Sneha and Vikram. It was sad to see them go when it came time for pre-port prior to India. I will always have the memory of our Bollywood performance during pre-port. I, Kareem (my dance partner) and 6 other students learned an entire Bollywood routine that was choreographed by Sneha and Neha in 2 nights. It was so much fun! I’m obsessed with Bollywood dance and music. And should my memory faulter, I have the videos to remind me ;)

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Hong Kong was a good time. I spent much of my time in Hong Kong chilling with Candace. This was her 2nd time in Hong Kong. She went last spring with one of her businesses classes at UVA, so she was familiar with the area/transportation. This cut our confusion time in half. This was a key because it was a very brief stay, 2.5 days, so there wasn’t much of a “getting lost” time buffer. Fortunately, we were able to visit many of the territory’s major landmarks and sights from a crystal cable ride up Lantau Island to see the worlds biggest seated Buddha to Victoria’s Peak. I have a hilarious story from Lantau Island involving the Buddha. Ask me about it sometime if you wanna hear. The Hong Kong skyline was so beautiful it rivaled Shanghai. The buildings were not only huge but many light up at night. We were able to see the city light show from the ship. Hong Kong was the only port so far where I was not able to enjoy authentic local food & delicacies, other than bean paste pastries. I did however, have the best seafood pasta of my life at the Spaghetti House.
• New food loves: The Spaghetti House (not authentic Hong Kong food--in fact I’m pretty sure it’s a chain restaurant which is kind of pathetic--but extremely delicious.)


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Hong Kong--Giant Buddha

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We caught an early morning flight for Beijing the next day (February 18th). The airplane food was pretty interesting; they served bird’s nest soup, mini jellied eggs, a spicy fish sandwich, and spicy cabbage. Flavor combinations and textures that we pretty unfamiliar to my palette, but overall not bad at all .The full 4-day/3-night was as follows:
• Day 1: Temple of Heaven, Trishaw ride around Hutong District, Jiaozi (dumpling) dinner with local family
• Day 2: Tian’men Square and Forbidden City, Service visit at Guan’ai Migrant School in Shunyi, shopping at the Silk Market
• Day 3: Drive past '08 Olympics area (bird's nest and ice cube), Beijing International Kungfu School, Badaling section of Great Wall (cable car up, toboggan down), Chinese acrobatic show
• Day 4: Early morning flight to Hong Kong

I had an amazing time in Beijing. The Temple of Heaven was an unexpectedly great time. I didn’t know much about the Temple going in and so didn’t know what to expect. Before reaching the temple, we walked through the inner courtyard where hundreds of elderly Chinese men and women were gathered singing, dancing, and playing games together. We were able to join in the dancing and the playing of shuttlecock, a game that’s almost identical to hacky sack, but that is played with a feathered contraption instead of a beanbag. It was great to see such a sense of community, especially among the elderly. Elderly people in China seem to be more fit and much happier than their western counterparts. The smiling faces of elderly people would be an image that I would revisit many times in China, whether it was on the faces of elderly people strolling with their grandchildren or doing early morning group Tai Chai (very slow-paced, controlled martial arts) in the park. I suspect that the replacement of senior citizen homes with family time and very active communal activities greatly attributes to this. The service visit at the Guan’ai School for children was another great highlight. Students at Guang’ai School are either orphans or have parents that have committed crimes. Due to their family’s dishonorable past, they are ineligible for government subsidies and subject to discrimination within society. We met the school’s inspirational founder, Shi Qinghua. He is not a rich man by any means, but was able to build the school (which currently houses 103 homeless children) four years ago. We donated and installed a couple of computers, and helped clean the school premises. We also got a chance to play with the kids and have a big tug of war tournament. Lasting only a few hours, the visit was brief (far too brief) but very meaningful and fun. The third highlight from the trip was visiting the Great Wall of China. It’s a place that I never fathomed being able to visit so early in my life. I had a blast riding up the cable car all the way up the wall and riding the toboggan (metal sled) all the way down part of the wall. The view from the wall was amazingly beautiful. It’s not until you’re actually on the wall do you realize why it’s one of the 7 wonders of the world. It’s so HIGH UP and well built. It was difficult for me to wrap my head around the fact that it was built more than 15 centuries ago, by HAND, and it’s still standing till this day. More than 300,000 men worked for 10 years to complete it and thousands died in the process. It’s a permanent reminder of the magnificent feats and miracles that human beings are able to accomplish, should they only resolve to. It made me want to stop stuffing my face w. food and enjoying...and actually do something of substance. But then it was time to go to dinner lol.
• New food loves: REAL Chinese food, pretty much everything I ate in Shanghai, DUMPLINGS, roasted goose, warm milk tea with tapioca balls, pork/shrimp dim sum, and warm Chinese bread w. butter and ice cream on top (sounds strange, but its soo good.)


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• Itinerary: Shanghai  Beijing  Hong Kong
I had an amazing time in Shanghai, mostly because both days were filled with two things that make me happy—good food and good company. The first day was spent touring Shanghai by car and on foot with Neha’s uncle’s contact Kiki. Kiki works in operations for the sports car company Fiat and is one of less than a handful of women in her company. When I told her that our Global Studies project focused on female empowerment, her face lit up, and we had a great discussion about her experiences over lunch at a place called Chinese Medicine. After lunch, we stumbled upon a Chinese dragon parade show in the streets. We spent most of the afternoon shopping at a huge underground copy market near the science district and ended the evening with the most amazing dinner at a place whose name escapes me. I experienced 2 “small world realization” moments in Shanghai. The first one occurred later that night, a bunch of us went to M2 club near People’s Square. Upon conversation, I later found out that the MC at the club, John “Lambo” Bowdre, and I had a mutual friend in the states, Sheldon Fields. Lambo and Sheldon are both Alphas and former summer Wall Street kids. Sheldon and I are both from West Orange and I got to know him through BWUA and random conversations freshman year. Lambo currently lives in China but started out studying abroad at Shanghai University just last Spring. He turned down a full time offer doing IB at UBS to pursue his entrepreneurial passions and set up an entertainment group in China. He is doing very well for himself and was able to bring his little brother over to help build his company. I found his story to be very inspiring, especially given his age and high risk decision. We had a great conversation that night and he offered to show me and my friends around Shanghai. So the next day, he, Karim, and I spent the next day exploring Shanghai. Lambo is conversant in Mandarin, so he was able to order for us and help us haggle at the copy market. We had such a fun, chill day, cracking jokes and doing touristy stuff like eating, shopping in non-touristy places. It was definitely a highlight of Shanghai.

My second “small world” moment happened later that night at club M1nt. Up 21 floors from ground level, M1nt is Shanghai’s premiere upscale nightclub, with amazing views of the city. The venue was absolutely beautiful and the music was great, but the crowd was somewhat bland, filled with models and older businessman. At the coat check, I struck up conversation with a PR guy from Australia, who was apparently responsible for booking the models for the club. He then introduced us to a few models, Olivia (18 from Canada) and Jos (20 from Czech Rep.). Olivia looked really surprised to see me and upon conversation, I found out why. Even before I told her about our Semester at Sea voyage, she revealed that she remembers seeing me in Japan the week prior. She arrived in Shanghai two days earlier from a Tokyo photo shoot and recalled seeing me with a group of girls in Shibuya, Tokyo. She remembered me from my twists and my cap. What are the odds of us not only being in the same city in Tokyo but meeting up again a week later on the same night and in the same city in an entirely different country? SO eerie. We had a lot of fun that night. The girls had full reign over VIP and so we were VIP for the night. My experiences in Shanghai were definitely very memorable.

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China- Happy New Year!- Year of the Dragon

It was definitely an exciting time to be in China. The streets were either decorated in red in honor of Chinese New Year or plastered with little blue men in preparation for the 2010 World Expo that will be hosted in Shanghai this summer/fall. Fireworks went off every night all throughout the city. The Chinese believe in horoscopes too, but unlike the zodiac, one’s horoscope is based on your birth year instead of birth month. In honor of Chinese New Year, here are the horoscopes of my fellow 1988 babies and my family members. (I picked up this horoscope sheet at the tourist information center lol). Interesting how all of the horoscopes talk mostly about work and investments, and rational, competition, and obedience seem to be a recurring words/themes. Oh China. Lol

Me-Year of the Dragon (1988)
You’ll need to exercise patience this year, and your efforts will be rewarded. Couples will live through a difficult but temporary period at the beginning of the year. Don’t be too critical ofnyour partner. You’ll derive great satisfaction from work. Rational and honest behavior will bring you success. Beware of useless purchases and look out for financial opportunities in the last quarter.

Mommy-Year of the Snake
Us e this year to take stock of what you want in life and how to get it. If you can avoid flirtations, you’ll build on a solid relationship. For a positive outcome, be assertive and realistic. The end of the year is a good time to make financial investments.

Daddy- Year of the Dog
You’ll want to assert independence this year- just don’t act too brashly! Work at your romantic relationship to foster trust and sensuality. Work will go well if you control your lack of respect for authority. Some competition and changes in the third quarter will be to your advantage. The 2nd quarter is an excellent time to make investments.

Zim- Year of the Monkey
You’ll be full of charisma this year: decisiveness and action will bring various positive changes. You’ll be lucky in love at first and then restless. Be rational, and a relationship will blossom. Business will go well if you match opportunities with initiative. You may find funds for a special project.

Amaka- Year of the Rooster
Competition, benefiting from decisions, and a full social calendar is in store. Your love life will improve tremendously. The first quarter favors pursuing professional training. There’s a chance of rapid career progress: earn more autonomy by following the rules. A hobby or informal project may yield unexpected income. Resist impulsive spending and don’t make speculative investments in the third quarter.

Ugonma- Year of the Pig (no Ugonma, I didn’t make this up. lol)
2010 brings luck: resist your sentimental instincts to make the most of it. You may have relationship problems but you’ll resolve them. Despite intriguing encounters, singles should havlue stability in the 2nd quarter. You’ll be motivated at work and develop good relationships. Over-excitement in the 2nd quarter is a danger. Your finances will improve but you must curb spending in 2nd quarter, and should not take any risks in the third.

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• Itinerary:
o Day 1: Neha, Alyssa, Allie, Katie, and I took the Japanese Rail (JR) from Yokohama to Shibuya district in Tokyo to meet up with Alyssa’s friend Shinta, who showed us around Tokyo for the first couple of days. The Japanese rail system greatly resembled the San Francisco BART system and so it was really easy to navigate. Shibuya, with its massive electronic billboards and midday bustle reminded me of Times Square. We spent most of the day just walking around the streets and window shopping at 109 mall. We had dinner later that night at a Soba noodle place.
o Day 2: We spent the morning in Shinjuku district in Tokyo. After walking around the underground market in Isetan mall, we checked out a large electronics store. Japanese electronics from phones to computers and even appliances like fridges/washers are so advanced. Colorful Panasonic flip phones, with digital light displays on the front cover seem to be extremely popular. After lunch at a traditional Ramen noodle bar (tastes nothing like Cup O’Noodle), we hopped on the JR and spent the afternoon in Harajukwu district. Luckily, even though it wasn’t Sunday, we ran into some people dressed in classic Harajukwu style. We shopped in the outdoor market, Forever 21, and Top Shop for a bit and had the most amazing homemade ice cream at the popular Hanabatake ice cream shop. Later that night we met up with everyone at the Tokyo Marriot and went to Muse night club in Roppongi district.
o Day 3: Most of the day was spent walking around the Ginzu district of Tokyo. We visited the Sony Showroom where we tested soon to be released electronics like 3-D Home TVs and Playstation consoles and superior quality digital SLRS. After dinner, Amy, Emily, Stephanie and I took the bullet train from Tokyo to Kobe and stayed in Green Hill Hotel because we all had Semester at Sea field trips the next day.
o Day 4: Spent the morning walking around Kobe and visited the Ikuta Jinja (Shinto) Shrine in Kobe. In the evening, I saw a theatre performance in Gion Corner with Semester at Sea. The performance including a tea ceremony, Koto music, Japanese flower arrangement, Gagaku (court music), Kyogen (comic play) and Kyomai (Kyoto style dance) performed by Japanese Geishas.
o Day 5: Visited the Gin Ju hot spring bath house in Arima, Kobe and had Kobe beef in a restaurant in Arima.
• Other places to visit: Hiroshima, Mt. Fuji, Fish market in Tokyo, Golden Temple in Kyoto, Zen Temple near Kobe

Japan is a beautiful fusion of both old and new, tradition and innovation. Arima and Gion Corner represent traditional Japanese culture while Tokyo serves as the epicenter of cultural and technological innovation. Verbs that describe Japan: Three C’s and a P:

• Conservative (& somewhat contradictory). Japan is very much a patriarchal society where women are very submissive and lower their voice a few octaves when talking to men. From the Toto toilets w. sound mufflers and deafening silence prevalent on all trains, it is clear that Japanese people are extremely private. Yet at the same token, the fashion, especially all over Tokyo (Shibuya, Shinjuku, Harajuku districts) is very loud and electric. Both male and female fashion showed signs of a definite hip-hop/rock influence. Guys wore baggy jeans with Nike dunks and disheveled hair and girls were unapologetically sexy in very short skirts/shorts, printed stockings (some w. garters), and high heels/stilettos.

• Communal—The Japanese certainly seem to adhere to the “it takes a village” idea of child rearing. While on the bullet train a young girl ran down the aisle and was stopped by an older woman. While the older woman was not related to her, she picked her up and sat her on her lap and pacified her. The girl’s mother, sitting two aisles away looked over and smiled, thanking the woman with a head nod. They sat like this for a couple hours. I remember thinking, this would rarely happen in the United States. People are extremely individualistic in the States and there is always an underlying fear of child abduction. There isn’t the same level of trust as there is in Japan. The hot spring bath house experience in Arima, Kobe served as another striking example of Japan’s communal nature. One must be completely bare skinned in the bath house, no bathing suits were allowed. My friends and I, along with older Japanese women undressed together in the locker room and then entered a separate bathhouse where we washed and then got into the hot spring jaccuzi. At first it was a bit awkward getting completely undressed together, however after a while we completely let go of our inhibitions and got over the fact that we were completely naked. The hot spring and sauna were extremely relaxing. Although it may sound clichéd, I truly found the entire experience to be very liberating.

• Courtesy- Everywhere we went, people would stop everything they were doing to help show us the way. If we asked someone for directions and they didn’t know, they would find someone who could help us. In Arima, we had trouble finding a good Kobe beef place that also offered vegetarian options. We walked into a pricey Kobe beef restaurant and talked to the owner in order to investigate their offerings. The restaurant had very few vegetarian options and was way out of our price range. Despite the fact that we were clearly not going to eat at his establishment, the owner not only helped locate a good, affordable restaurant, but also left his restaurant to walk us there to make sure we didn’t get lost. When we were there, he then preceded to help us order as the menus were in Japanese. He even negotiated with the chef in order to get me a smaller cut of Kobe beef steak for a better price. After our meal, he then served as a translator for Neha and I as we interviewed one of his employees. I’ve never experienced such above and beyond courtesy in my life. How ironic that Japanese treat American foreigners with such courtesy yet Americans are often extremely rude to foreigners.

• Perfectionist- The Japanese believe that food should look good as good as it tastes. This was very evident in all of the department store markets we visited. Each food counter boasted amazingly beautiful food displays. Japanese people are also very hard workers. No matter what the job, people did their job to the best of their ability.

• New food loves: Japanese sweets and desserts are the BEST. Strawberry Pocky sticks, mochie filled w. sweetened bean paste, Kinotoya egg custard, and Hanabatake icecream.

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Japan! Three C's and a P